Find someone you can trust and
talk to them about what is happening to you. They might be
your favourite teacher, your parents, relatives, guardian,
youth worker or a good friend. Talk to someone who won't go
steaming in, but who will listen first.
If your school doesn't have an anti-bullying club at break
times or after school, you could suggest that one gets started
up and anyone that feels stressed or fed up with being bullied
can go to the club and relax and talk through their problems
with others who have experienced bullying.
Looking out for each other and respecting others can also
help, so maybe a "bully watcher or buddy" scheme
could be started.
Suggest to your teachers or youth workers that a series of
special assemblies at school or workshops at your local youth
group might help bullies as well as those being bullied, to
better understand each other and tackle the problem.
If you are being bullied or know of someone else being bullied,
try to keep a diary of the things that have happened and get
them to do the same. This will help those you ask for help
as they can see very clearly what sort of bullying has happened
and who is responsible, where it happened and when.
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